Madame (2019)

Madame: Directed by Stéphane Riethauser. With Caroline Della Beffa, Stéphane Riethauser. A grandmother and her grandson engage in an intimate conversation, exploring gender, sexuality and transmission of identity.

“A grandson talks to and about his grandmother who has affected his life deeply, from his early childhood to his adult life. There are scenes of dialogue, monologue, narration, and the film goes back and forth in time to tell their intersecting stories, semi-documentary style.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eThe grandmother is obviously the more interesting character here (and has a much more fascinating story), having lived a longer, fuller and much more colorful life. The grandson is a moviemaker now, using his grandma both as a subject and as a means to talk about his coming out as gay, both to his family and also to himself.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eIf only the director / moviemaker hadnu0026#39;t pushed the homosexuality point so forcefully, reminding the audience every two minutes that heu0026#39;s gay, this would have been a much better film. As it is, itu0026#39;s still an interesting watch, the life of a woman who has lived so fully and continues to live just as fully even in her golden years is a fascinating experience. The grandsonu0026#39;s story pales a bit in comparison, but it isnu0026#39;t that boring: his relationship with his father was also interesting. However, when we inevitably and subconsciously compare the two subjects of this movie, the obvious conclusion is that: one has lived through hard times, had relationships, overcome many obstacles at work and in her personal life, made something of herself despite terrible odds, all the time leading a very full and interesting life, whereas the other one… well, is gay. Itu0026#39;s kind of a sad and worrying sign of our times where our character, our personality, who we are and what weu0026#39;ve done in our life, even our achievements are sadly determined solely by our sexuality, and who we sleep with overpowers everything else about us.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eAs a viewer you canu0026#39;t help but think u0026quot;We get it, youu0026#39;re gay, please move on to something else…u0026quot; at least a few times. Still, the movie works and Iu0026#39;d recommend it as a fresh, interesting watch.”