Die Harten und die Zarten (1970)

Die Harten und die Zarten: Directed by William Friedkin. With Kenneth Nelson, Frederick Combs, Cliff Gorman, Laurence Luckinbill. Tempers fray and true selves are revealed when a heterosexual accidentally intrudes on a homosexual party.

“I was 20 years old when this pre-AIDS movie came out. It meant nothing to me. I was still in the closet and would be for another seven years. But striking a deep chord the first time I saw it (about a year or two after coming out), I invite myself to rewatch it every so often just to show myself where I am, where I was, and the strides Iu0026#39;ve made. In some ways, incongruous as it may seem to some, this movie has become my `Schindleru0026#39;s List.u0026#39; It allows me to never forget the past and try to change the future. `Boys in the Bandu0026#39; was an aggressive turning point in gay awareness – a huge, sure-footed step. It was both a sweet and bitter pill to swallow in its self-examination. Admittedly dated in certain aspects, the overall power of it cannot be denied. Interesting enough, the play was first performed a year before the 1969 Stonewall Inn riots. The movie version came out a year after.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eThe stage play was a surprisingly huge hit and fearless playwright Mart Crowley had the know-how, the resources, and keen sense to keep his talented stage cast together when it transferred to film, knowing the importance of a tight ensemble. In short, a festive NY chic birthday party involving eight gay men turns sour and savage when a ninth man (married, but questionable) inadvertently intrudes on the proceedings. Landmark in that it presented homosexuals as thinking, feeling human beings and not caricatures set up merely for ridicule or a chuckle, director William (`The Exorcistu0026#39;) Friedkin zeroes in on the whole gay package – the good, the bad, and the ugly.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003enKenneth Nelson as the acerbic, vindictive, persecuted Michael first impressed me with his beautiful singing voice as the original Matt in the off-Broadway musical `The Fantasticks.u0026#39; This was his film debut and what an auspicious debut it was. Had it been a straight role, he could have launched an enviable film career that might have lasted decades. Nelsonu0026#39;s character lashes out with such alarming rage and self-hatred. The nice, obedient, church-going `yes manu0026#39; lost in a straight world, who takes societyu0026#39;s scorn and repulsion and turns it back on himself and anybody else within a close proximity. Living a lie outside his apartment door, he punishes himself for it while inside. I could never go where Michael goes emotionally, but there is an identification factor to his anger and his anguish. Frederick Combsu0026#39; effectively underplays Donald, Michaelu0026#39;s good friend and polar opposite, a man who solves his own problems with a joint, pills and as little hostility as possible. A walking failure, he rather retreat than confront. The self-imposed pacifist with little drive and even less direction, Donald concerns himself with just making it through the day with as little pain as possible.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eThe exceptionally handsome couple of Keith Prentice (Larry), the man whou0026#39;s feeling the chains of his relationship, and Laurence Luckinbill (Hank), who prefers a monogamous home life, gave me my first connection to what a mature but complex gay union could be like. Despite their serious problems, I actually saw two, non-stereotyped gay men trying to make a go of it while dealing with the many pressures – one still craving an exciting night life of promiscuous sex and the other striving to overcome the guilt of leaving his wife and children.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eWhile Ruben Greene as the more centered but embittered Bernard puts a mild black perspective on the turbulent gay lifestyle, Cliff Gormanu0026#39;s Emory comes equipped with a ferocious swish and campy, razor-sharp quips to handle his hostility and self-loathing – sure to be the center of attention as a life-of-the-party diva. Birthday boy Harold, the u0026#39;pock-marked Jew fairyu0026#39;, and played with bold, captivating flamboyance by Leonard Frey, is an inspired cynic and wit, supposedly insured with a thick skin and quick tongue, but actually frayed by massive, self-destructive insecurities. Haroldu0026#39;s `birthday presentu0026#39; in the form of Cowboy, well-played by Robert LaTourneaux, eeks out a nowhere life for himself playing dumb, icing-on-the-cake stud boys, using body muscle and not brain muscle to get by. Forlorn-looking Peter White as Alan, Michaelu0026#39;s gloomy, married friend who unwittingly sets off the party fireworks, makes the most of his characteru0026#39;s uncertainties, keeping the guessing game of his sexuality a constant intrigue until the end.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eNobodyu0026#39;s character gets off easy here. Although Nelson, Gorman and, especially, Frey have the flashiest roles, the rest of the ensemble finds opportune times to expose their heart and heartache. Depressing as much of it may appear with its vituperative `Whou0026#39;s Afraid of Virginia Woolfu0026#39; style of game-playing and raw confrontation, it also shares that movieu0026#39;s agility in delivering potent, poetic dialogue with much-admired gusto. `Boys in the Bandu0026#39; will leave you just as exhausted as `Virginia Woolfu0026#39; did and will stay with you long after the explosive climax. But, just as importantly, while it succeeds as a bitter commentary, it also triumphs as a devilishly funny campfest.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eIt is important for me to address Babe Hardyu0026#39;s thoughtful but highly naive July 15, 2001 comment that the entire cast of `Boys in the Bandu0026#39; was made up of straight men. She couldnu0026#39;t BE more wrong. As of this date, more than half of this brilliant cast succumbed to AIDS. In death, however, Robert LaTourneaux (1986), Leonard Frey (1988), Keith Prentice (1992), Kenneth Nelson (1993), and Frederick Coombs (1993) have left a life-affirming legacy with brave, uninhibited performances way ahead of their time. True, Larry Luckinbill is straight, as is Cliff Gorman, who, ironically, plays the über-queen Emory, but the rest? You ainu0026#39;t got the facts STRAIGHT, mau0026#39;am.u003cbr/u003eu003cbr/u003eUnlike the gay comedies of today that are softened to appeal to a more mainstream audience (this is not a bad thing), `Boys in the Bandu0026#39; will be too bold in its observance to attract many outside the personal freedom fort. Me? I am thankful and rejoice in its honesty and intent.”